Hey Guess What..............

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i NEVER thought i wanted to be somebody's baby daddy, but i gotta say it the fucking coolest thing i've ever been wrapped up in. suddenly i'm not just talking to myself anymore- and when they get to about a year and a half, it's like having an ewok around.

actual seriousness... things are going to get rough. not with the baby- the kid's the easy part. i mean between you and the missus. for the first three months you're nothing but a curiosity to the kid, and don't try to find consolation with mommy b/c she won't care. this time is all about her and the kid bonding. so be cool.

then after that, your lady might find all kinds of excuses not to be physical with you. "tired" and "hormonal" are words you will hear often. try to be cool, but if you've never understood why someone would cheat on their mate you will understand then. you'll have the same needs you've always had but will find yourself at the bottom of a long list behind "folding blankets" and "disinfecting the diaper champ."

be strong, be cool... i've heard it pays off between you and the missus in the end.

the good is the baby. you'll find yourself sitting for hours staring at the kid. "look at those fat little fingers" will pass your lips a dozen times a week. and it seriously does get better every week- they learn stuff really fast, and i swear to god you'll shit the first time you get the kid to imitate you (ie. clap or stick out a tongue) and the first time he/she eats solid food. it's the reason to get up everyday.

so let me add my VERY sincere congrats to the mix! it's the ride of a lifetime! and please, if you have any seemingly mundane questions about anything (from food to which car seats to get (cuz that'll make your head spin)) please don't hesitate to PM me!

congrats again, and good luck!!

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