John George Peppers wrote:This could just be a one night stand or this could be a with someone you indeed want to see again. Either way, it's the first time you have hooked up. You spent the night and now the early morning rays have woken you up.What's your exit strategy? Do you just get the hell out of there ASAP? Do you wait around for a bit in the morning? Do you stick around for the better half of the day?

ARE YOU STILL THERE?

Marsupialized wrote:

Steve V. wrote:If it is someone I want to see again and I have nothing to do, I try to spend as much of the morning and late afternoon with her as possible.

JGP, I demand you set this man straight.

Yeah...wait, what?

Steve V. wrote:Also also, NEVER EVER HAVE A ONE NIGHT STAND AT YOUR OWN PLACE. EVER.

...and it is best to remember where you parked your vehicle.

This is important.

Steve V. wrote:

Marsupialized wrote:

Steve V. wrote:If it is someone I want to see again and I have nothing to do, I try to spend as much of the morning and late afternoon with her as possible.

JGP, I demand you set this man straight.

What?

I would say that if it really goes well you can have breakfast but that's it. You don't want to be a sap and clear out your entire next day for this random chick. You end up looking like someone without a life. A smart chick would pick up on that right away and steer clear of you. If she likes that you've spent all day with her, then she has no life. You should be running, not walking, in any direction away from her in that case.

dontfeartheringo wrote:ARE YOU STILL THERE?

Actually this has nothing to do with me. I wanted to poll the board to get a feel for the general consensus. After reading the crap/not crap thread where a good percentage of PRF's said they say, "Thank you" to their partner after sex, you never know what the norm here will be. I have to say I am pleasantly surprised at most of these responses.

I brought this topic up because I have had a few horrible experiences with randoms staying well past the invitation for the next day. We're talking ones that will not leave my apartment for hours when all I'm doing is watching TV and ignoring them. If I'm at home and really hungover I want to relax on my couch. I'm not going to make up an excuse to leave my own place, just to get a chick to put her shoes on and leave. However, some of these women just actually have to be told to leave. I'm mean they will just sit around for hours. The longest one stayed an entire weekend. I shit you not. I went on a bender, didn't say anything, and rode it out to see when she would go home. She stayed at my place from Friday night till Sunday night. She finally left because she needed clean clothes for work on Monday. It's comedy if you don't say anything. Try it! Just wait around the next day for people to leave on their own accord. Some people can't do it. They actually need to be given a reason to leave.


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Steve V. wrote:
Also also, NEVER EVER HAVE A ONE NIGHT STAND AT YOUR OWN PLACE. EVER.

See I like the home court advantage. I like sleeping in my own bed and I'm stubborn about that. However, then you have to deal with the shit outlined above.

John George Peppers wrote:I would say that if it really goes well you can have breakfast but that's it. You don't want to be a sap and clear out your entire next day for this random chick. You end up looking like someone without a life. A smart chick would pick up on that right away and steer clear of you. If she likes that you've spent all day with her, then she has no life. You should be running, not walking, in any direction away from her in that case.

That is utter bullshit.
A "smart chick" wouldn't be fucking you the first time you meet her.

John George Peppers wrote:However, some of these women just actually have to be told to leave. .

If you want someone to leave, you should just tell them to leave. Works with everyone who is in possession of a brain, unlike the fucking dick sitting on my sofa at the moment.

Nina wrote:That is utter bullshit.
A "smart chick" wouldn't be fucking you the first time you meet her.

Yeah, agreed. Unless slut means smart, in which case,most males just might think that.

I was waiting to see which female poster would respond to this first. Salute Nina!

Nina wrote:
A "smart chick" wouldn't be fucking you the first time you meet her.

I beg to differ. I was on a great first date. We both got on really well and we making out like our plane was about to crash by the end of the night. After going back to her place she then switched gears and wanted to cool things off. It was really obvious we both wanted to have sex with each other. So, I think it's kind of ridiculous, given the way the evening went, not to give into to those feelings. I talked with her quite a bit after that and took her out on a second date. We both agreed we liked each other quite a bit, but it seemed she was trying to prove she was born again virgin or something. This completely turned me off as I think it would most men. She clearly had sex before, hell we talked about sex on one of the dates. Her withholding of sex was just of way of telling me how serious she was about to take our relationship should we have one.... or some other Bullshit. It just comes across as an early sign of game playing on her part. If you want to do something then do it. There are no rules, nothing terrible will happen to you if you have sex on the first date. If you are having a really good time and you click with each other then why not. That's not a slutty thing to do, that's doing what feels right. If the date was just so-so and then the woman or the man decides to have random sex.....that is a slutty move. They are two separate things.

just open the apartment door and throw something shiny out into the hall. when she runs after it, close and lock the door behind her.

John George Peppers wrote:

Steve V. wrote:

Marsupialized wrote:

Steve V. wrote:If it is someone I want to see again and I have nothing to do, I try to spend as much of the morning and late afternoon with her as possible.

JGP, I demand you set this man straight.

What?

I would say that if it really goes well you can have breakfast but that's it. You don't want to be a sap and clear out your entire next day for this random chick. You end up looking like someone without a life. A smart chick would pick up on that right away and steer clear of you. If she likes that you've spent all day with her, then she has no life. You should be running, not walking, in any direction away from her in that case.

Wow...er...good point.

I've sacrificed the home court advantage on a couple of occasions, mostly because of one of those "she-came-back-a-month-and-a-half-later-preggo stories.